Angie, Canadian, PhD History, time travelling wife of Lord Castlereagh, part-time mistress of Duke Valentino and professional avoider of Reality. I worship at the feet of the Medici.
every time the seasons change to winter my dash becomes a parade of “femininity is a synonym for madness” and “there is no hope for women” and like i get it but also buy a sun lamp queens
When will people on this godforsaken website learn that bloggers here aren’t like. Fictional media representation. They’re real people with real experiences. Sometimes people Are Bi
I just wanna say, @ literally every lesbian saying this shit—
Please understand that you are projecting your own trauma and internalized homophobia onto another human being who has literally nothing to do with it
So someone who identified as a lesbian previously, who you identified with and related to and projected onto, started dating a man and learned they were bi— if that is a trigger for you and brings up some sort of old trauma feelings or makes you feel hurt, those are feelings to work through with a therapist or a trusted friend who understands your personal trauma history.
It is actively unhealthy for you and harmful of you to react to that pain by trying to force another human being into being something they’re not for your own comfort.
Your emotional reaction and whatever issues it brings up have nothing to do with OP and you cannot solve them with brute force biphobia.
You are separate human beings. Someone else dating a man doesn’t mean you are now dating a man, and reacting to a bi woman dating a man with the emotional intensity of someone forcing you to date one is a sign of very poor boundaries. You need to address these issues in the context of your own life- it is not appropriate to push this onto a stranger.
